Our church has been reading through “Make Mature Multiply: Becoming Fully-Formed Disciples of Jesus,” edited by Brandon Smith. In chapter 6 Logan Gentry notes that Jesus’ evangelism strategy was to point people to “the better story.”
Gentry points out Christ’s “you have heard it said, but I say” statements as a means to contrast the world’s perspective with the better way of the gospel.
This resonated with me and something I’ve been working through when it comes to parenting. I’ve been wanting to develop a way to shepherd our son’s heart and not just his behavior. I definitely want a well-behaved kid, mind you, but I also don’t want moralism to be an obstacle or distraction to his realizing a need for the gospel.
We have one son, now, and he’s only 10 months old, so we still have a LITTLE time to work on this. Recently though, I was challenging myself to point him to a better way rather than just a “because I said so” approach. I want my son to know that I have his best interest in mind when I correct him. I want him to recognize that his heart is not whole apart from Jesus.
So I’ve tried recently, instead of just saying “no” or “stop” to adding “you don’t need that” or “that will hurt you” as a further explanation of why I’m disciplining him. It’s a small step in a huge journey, but I can only hope that I can point him to the better way found only in the gospel of Christ.